Writing letters is an important skill to teach our children. A well-crafted letter can be a powerful tool. Even in this era of Twitter snippets, letters continue to be an effective way to communicate. After all, job hunting 101 emphasizes the importance of making personal contact via writing a letter. Every resume begins with a cover letter. Beyond the practical reasons for building letter writing skills, who doesn’t enjoy getting a cute letter from a kid?

Teaching Kids the Fine Art of Writing Letters

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Teaching Good Letter Writing Habits to Kids

There are many ways that we use letter writing with children.

The “Exploring Interests” letter:

One young boy became obsessed with Tesla cars. His mother (a very intelligent parent) realized that this was a great learning opportunity. First, she helped her son research information about Tesla and then she encouraged him to write a letter expressing his interests.
Here is the letter he wrote and the letter that he received (along with a t-shirt):

Learning Good Letter Writing Habits by Writing a letter to Tesla

“Dear Mr. Elan Musk,

My name is Layton and I am 5 years old.Your cars are great because they don’t use up fossil fuels.When I grow up I want to be a crash test engineer for Tesla Motors! Have a great summer!



He was lucky to receive this response along with a t-shirt;

Letter from Tesla 01

The “Information” Letter to Keep in Touch with the People that you Love


Writing a Letter to a Family Member

Writing letters about one’s life and travels helps build connections. My father-in-law is the master of letter writing. His letters bring us closer and keep us connected. Pictures are a great way to guide children in writing letters about their lives. What grandparent wouldn’t enjoy a pictographic letter from their grandchild? Take pictures of an event or a place and encourage children to write about the pictures.

Letter Writing for Kids: Pen Pals can help each other share their feelings and raise each other's self-esteem

The “Social Skills” Letter; Writing to a Penpal:

Letter writing is a great way to build social skills and connections. When one girl that I was working with started struggling with low self-esteem, I paired her up with an older “friend’ as penpals and had them write letters to each other. The letters helped the older child to think about and integrate what she had learned and experienced. The younger child felt like she had a friend who supported her and provided guidance. Having a penpal also connects people from other cultures and countries. There are organizations like Penpal World and Students of the World that will help pair students with someone to write and send letters back and forth.

The “Connecting to Literature” Letter

Letter writing, either to fictional characters or as a fictional character, connects with literature, builds reading comprehension, character development and perspective taking. We love the book The Jolly Postman. It illustrates different types of writing, formal, cards, postcards and more. Have children choose a fictional character to write a letter to. What would they say? Pair up two kids, have them each choose a favorite character from a book to pretend to be and have them write letters to each other as those characters.
Letter Writing Thank You Card

The “Thank You” Letter

Expressing gratitude and appreciating others is a critical social skill. Many of us can get into the habit of taking things for granted. When we take the time to be grateful we actually feel better about our lives. Besides, who doesn’t like a hand-written thank you note?

We can’t wait to read your letters!

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